A Review: Rachel Jankovic’s Fit to Burst

Fit to Burst

I first came across Rachel Jankovic when I read Motherhood is a Calling (And Where Your Children Rank) on the Desiring God blog. I resonated with her thoughts on motherhood and the value of children.

Recently, a friend gave me Rachel’s books Loving the Little Years and Fit to Burst. Since my kids are a little beyond the little years, I decided to read the latter first.

Fit to Burst could be a quick read — in that it has short chapters that each tackles a different aspect of motherhood. I would not; however, say that you should read it quickly. Because honestly, I think you need to leave time for Rachel’s ideas to soak in.

I have to say, there were a couple of moments when I wish the chapters had not been so brief, so that Rachel could have fleshed out her ideas further to help me understand her perspective.

But then there were other moments.

Like when I read the chapter “Mean Boss” and was immediately challenged to ask myself, “Am I a good boss?” “Am I a hard-working employee?” I had to admit that too many times my answer would have to be “no” to both.

When I read “A Little Morning Rugby”, I experienced true conviction. So much so that I read the chapter aloud to my children, and through teary eyes, apologized, and asked them to forgive me for continuing to throw balls at them while their noses were still stinging from the first missed catch. (You’ll have to read the chapter.)

Fit to Burst will make you think . . . deeply. Rachel shares real life illustrations, puts an interesting spin on them, and pushes us to step back and contemplate our lives as followers of Christ in this calling of motherhood.

The result, for me, was that I was forced to examine how I’m doing as a mom. That’s sometimes tough. Then I was pushed toward Christ for forgiveness, wisdom and help. And that’s always good!

Fear. It’s Real. And What to Do About It.

A few days ago, as I was driving home, my mind drifted. In no time I was in an internal panic, thinking about what would happen to my children if my husband and I both died at the same time. Then, I let my mind go further (too far) and I imagined if we all died except my youngest daughter. Would our friends gather around her? Would our family get here quickly enough to calm her fears? I was almost in tears as I was driving, gripped by fear. Continue reading

Compassion Sunday is coming!

On Sunday April 21, churches all over the country will be promoting Compassion Sunday. Compassion International is hoping that many, many individuals and families will reach out and bring the love of Jesus and a new life story to children in extreme poverty.

My son is promoting this event in our church. He and his brother made this cool video to prep our church for the coming event. Compassion also sent him 20 names and pictures of real children who need real help. Each of them needs prayer and financial support.

Compassion International is one organization that is doing this good work. My family has also made such contributions through Gospel for Asia and Samaritan’s Purse. I hope you’ll check out these great ministries.

Would you please pray? And, if you’re not currently sponsoring a child in need, let me encourage you to consider what you might do for the least of these.

 

Folding and Thinking

Yesterday morning I was folding laundry in the hall upstairs, and looking at the sizes trying to figure out which shirt belonged to which kid, etc. These days I’m folding 12′s, 14′s and shirts that cause me to do a double-take to know if it’s my son’s or my husband’s. While folding, I had this wave of melancholy come over me. (This doesn’t always happen while doing laundry!) I lingered over the thought that I only have a handful of years left to share a house with these four, not-so-little-anymore, people of mine. Continue reading

The Ward Family Two Year Plan

Just before the end of the year, the kids and I finished our third reading of the Bible. Yay! It was a day of celebration; a really good day.

We were planning a trek to visit family for Christmas and New Year’s, so I decided to delay starting over again until our return.

I was also delaying because I had an idea. Continue reading